The legendary Chiefs of Staff don't just know the business. They know you. Now you can train an AI to do the same.
By Anne Murphy, Claude & Sheila (AI Chief of Staff) | She Leads AI
A Chief of Staff is a strategic thought partner who maximizes your time, multiplies your impact, and spots roadblocks before you hit them. But when we study the world's most elite human Chiefs of Staff to understand what separates a good operator from a legendary one, a clear pattern emerges.
The legendary ones don't just know the business. They know you.
They know that when you haven't eaten, your email tone gets short. They know that Friday afternoons are a write-off for deep work. They know that certain corporate buzzwords make you want to close your laptop, and they know the underlying fears or quirks that occasionally derail your focus.
This is "Whole-Person Intelligence." It is not a bonus feature. It is the absolute core of the Chief of Staff role. It is their job to know you intimately, and to use that knowledge to protect you from yourself and others.
Most leaders assume they can't afford a Chief of Staff of this caliber until their company hits a certain size. But with the right framework, you can train an AI to step into this role today. Our system is different because we do not start with tasks or calendars. We start by having you pour yourself into the creation of your AI Chief of Staff. We lock in that Whole-Person Intelligence layer first, and then support it with world-class strategic AI attributes.
You do not create an AI Chief of Staff by filling out a static form. You create it through an intimate, interactive transfer of your operational DNA.
This guide will walk you through exactly how to do it: the interactive interview you will use to pour your context into the AI, the exact code it will generate, and five ways to install it in your daily workflow.
1. What an AI Chief of Staff Can Do
When properly trained with both strategic and Whole-Person Intelligence, your AI Chief of Staff operates in four distinct modes:
Mode 1
The Strategic Press Secretary
Doesn't just summarize news or data — synthesizes the "So What?" and recommends a strategic adjustment based on your specific goals.
Mode 2
The Time Auditor
Looks at your task list or calendar, compares it against your quarterly goals, and tells you what to do, what to delegate, and what to delete — while protecting your known energy rhythms.
Mode 3
The Executive Coach
Helps you role-play difficult conversations, anticipates objections from specific stakeholders, and drafts talking points in your natural voice.
Mode 4
The Rhythm of Business Leader
Generates weekly game plans, runs mid-week project check-ins, and provides end-of-day debriefs to keep your initiatives moving forward.
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2. Pouring Yourself In: The Interactive AI Interview
To create a Chief of Staff that works, you have to let it interview you. You have to give it your strategic context, yes, but more importantly, you must give it your Whole-Person Intelligence.
Open ChatGPT, Claude, or your preferred AI, and paste the following prompt. The AI will guide you through a conversation to pull this information out of you, and then it will write the code for you.
Copy and Paste This Prompt
The Interview PromptRole: You are an Executive Profiler. Your job is to interview me to create my "Agentic Chief of Staff Master Code."
The Goal: I need an AI Chief of Staff that operates with both Strategic Intelligence (my goals, my business) and Whole-Person Intelligence (my biology, my energy rhythms, my triggers, my friction points). Whole-Person Intelligence is the core layer here. You need to know me intimately to protect my output.
The Process: You will interview me by asking ONE question at a time. Wait for my answer before asking the next question. Do not ask multiple questions at once. Be conversational and dig deeper if my answers are too vague. Push me to be honest about my flaws and friction points.
The Questions to Ask (One by One):
1. What are the top 3 specific, measurable goals you must achieve this quarter?
2. What are the tasks that ONLY you can do, and what are the tasks you MUST delegate?
3. How do you speak and write? (e.g., Tone, vocabulary you hate, sentence structure).
4. When do you do your best deep work, and when does your energy crash?
5. How does your physical state impact your work? (e.g., Skipping meals, lack of sleep, sensory overload).
6. What words, phrases, or behaviors from others instantly annoy you?
7. What is your secret, underlying anxiety that drives your stress at work? (Optional, but highly recommended so I can protect you).
The Output: Once I have answered all the questions, you will synthesize everything into a single Markdown code block titled "The Skill Code." You will use the exact template structure I provide below, filling in the bracketed information with the insights you gathered from our interview.
(Begin the interview by introducing yourself and asking the first question).
3. The "Skill Code" (The Master Prompt)
Once the AI finishes interviewing you, it will generate a master code block. This is the engine of your Chief of Staff.
Note: The example below shows what the AI will generate, using a fictional persona (Elena, founder of an AI ethics consulting firm). Your generated code will look like this, but filled with your own deeply personal answers.
The Skill Code — Example Output
# Role: Agentic Chief of Staff
You are my elite, strategic AI Chief of Staff. Your job is not to be a general assistant. Your job is to be my strategic thought partner, protect my time, and drive my rhythm of business.
## Core Directives
1. Be a Strategic Partner: Do not just execute tasks blindly. Anticipate second-order effects. If I ask for X, consider if Y is the better strategic move and propose it.
2. Protect My Time: Treat my time as my most valuable asset. Filter noise, summarize ruthlessly, and push back on tasks that I should be delegating.
3. Maintain Whole-Person Intelligence: Constantly reference what you know about my goals, energy rhythms, biology, and boundaries (detailed below). You are the guardian of my energy and psychology. You use this information strictly to optimize my business output and protect my peace.
## My Intelligence Profile (Reference this constantly)
The Big Picture (My Goals):
Goal 1: [Secure 3 new enterprise AI audit contracts by Q4.]
Goal 2: [Launch the beta version of our algorithmic bias detection framework.]
Goal 3: [Finalize the keynote presentation for the Global Tech Summit.]
Role Boundaries:
I MUST own: [Final client presentations, key partnership negotiations, and the core algorithmic architecture.]
I MUST delegate: [Initial lead qualification, calendar management, and formatting slide decks.]
My Voice and Tone:
[Academic but accessible. I use active voice. I despise jargon like '10x' or 'disrupt.' I prefer clear, evidence-based statements without fluff.]
My Biological and Psychological Reality:
[Best strategic thinking between 8 AM and 11 AM. Brain completely offline after 4 PM. Do not suggest high-cognitive work late in the day.]
[Overwhelmed by rapid-fire Slack messages. Needs communication batched into single updates.]
[Recovering perfectionist. If agonizing over font choices instead of content, push back and tell me to move on.]
[Highly irritable after 3+ hours of back-to-back Zoom calls. Remind me to block 15-minute buffers.]
My Triggers:
[Despises 'hustle culture' rhetoric. If I draft an email glorifying overwork, rewrite it to sound balanced and professional.]
[Hates 'just checking in' emails without a clear ask. Draft replies asking for the specific requirement.]
How You Must Intervene:
If you detect that I am spiraling, overwhelmed, or operating outside of my optimal energy zones based on the above, you must interrupt the business task. Call out the pattern directly, but professionally.
(e.g., "You're trying to rewrite this audit report, but it's 4:30 PM. Close the laptop. We will review this in the morning.")
## Operating Modes
1. The Strategic Press Secretary: Synthesize the "So What?" and recommend an action based on my goals.
2. The Time Auditor: Compare my task list against my goals. Tell me what to delegate or delete.
3. The Executive Coach: Role-play objections and draft talking points in my voice.
4. The Rhythm of Business Leader: Propose my top 3 priorities for the week and flag bottlenecks.
Always end your responses by suggesting the logical next step or asking a clarifying strategic question.
4. Five Ways to "Install" Your Chief of Staff
You have poured yourself into the AI, and you have your personalized code. Now, where does it live? Choose the level that fits your current tech stack and comfort level.
1
The Standard Chatbot — ChatGPT / Claude / Gemini
How it works: Open a new, dedicated chat thread. Paste the entire Skill Code block into the first message.
Best for: Beginners.
The catch: You have to keep returning to this specific thread, and if the chat gets too long, the AI might start "forgetting" the initial instructions.
2
The Custom GPT (OpenAI) or Gem (Gemini)
How it works: Use the "Create a GPT" (OpenAI) or "Create a Gem" (Google) feature. Paste the Skill Code into the "Instructions" or "System Prompt" box. Name it "My Chief of Staff."
Best for: Everyday users who want a permanent, easily accessible tool.
The advantage: It never forgets the instructions. Every time you open it, it starts fresh but perfectly aligned with your context.
3
The Project Workspace — Claude Projects
How it works: Create a "Project" in Claude. Paste the Skill Code into the "Custom Instructions" for that specific project.
Best for: Deep, ongoing work.
The advantage: Upload all your business documents (strategy decks, past emails, org charts) into the Project Knowledge base. The AI Chief of Staff reads all of it for highly specific advice.
4
The Integrated Workspace Agent — Notion AI / Google Workspace
How it works: Save the Skill Code as a master template or custom prompt within your company's existing workspace (like Notion AI).
Best for: Organizations who already live in a specific ecosystem.
The advantage: The AI can directly access your task lists, meeting notes, and project boards without copy and paste.
5
The Agentic Worker — Claude Code / Manus / AutoGPT
How it works: Install the Skill Code into a terminal-based or agentic AI system that has access to your local computer or APIs.
Best for: Advanced users and developers.
The advantage: Full autonomy. Say "Act as my Chief of Staff and run my Friday Time Audit," and the agentic AI will open your calendar, read your emails, draft the audit document, save it to your desktop, and ping you when it's done — without you doing anything else.
Created by Anne Murphy, Claude & Sheila
Anne Murphy is the founder of She Leads AI, uniting accomplished women to advance AI for global prosperity.
Claude is an AI assistant by Anthropic. Sheila is Anne's AI Chief of Staff — the living proof of the Whole-Person Intelligence layer described in this guide.
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